Sometimes the problem isn't that your life is falling apart. It's that you've become very good at living a life you don't really want. You know how to get through the week. You know how to pay the bills. You know how to keep everyone happy. You know how to do your work. You know how to make plans. You know how to look fine when someone asks. Nothing is seriously wrong. And that's exactly what makes it hard to admit that something feels wrong. Because if your life were terrible, you'd know...